Talking during sex
From the Book- Magnificent Sex
Some of the following is obvious and yet people forget to do it or make the conscious decision not to connect on those deeper levels.
Do you talk during sex?
Do you “relate” during “sexual relations”?
Do you talk to yourself in those silent character balloons over your head? Or are you truly together?
Frame of mind during sex:
Can you be calm, so fully engaged with one another not only at the level of physical stimulation, but encouraging them to continue exploring one another -emotionally and erotically, such that sex cannot help but be exciting?
Can you be utterly embodied, absorbed and present within, while simultaneously being fully in sync with and connected with another person?
What does it take?
Those who have attained extraordinary sexuality set out to do so and devoted substantial time, energy and development of interpersonal skills to make it happen.
Extraordinary lovers practice the required skills, even though this entailed making mistakes within view of their partners.
They taught themselves to become more open, attentive and sensitive, so that they could be absorbed with their partners in the moment.
Are you able to read your partner’s verbal and nonverbal communication, respond to subtle cues, and make ongoing modification to enhance your sexual encounter? If you can do this in the bedroom, you are likely doing it in other areas of your life.
Touch can be used as a vehicle for communication.
From the Book- Magnificent Sex
Some of the following is obvious and yet people forget to do it or make the conscious decision not to connect on those deeper levels.
Do you talk during sex?
Do you “relate” during “sexual relations”?
Do you talk to yourself in those silent character balloons over your head? Or are you truly together?
Frame of mind during sex:
Can you be calm, so fully engaged with one another not only at the level of physical stimulation, but encouraging them to continue exploring one another -emotionally and erotically, such that sex cannot help but be exciting?
Can you be utterly embodied, absorbed and present within, while simultaneously being fully in sync with and connected with another person?
What does it take?
Those who have attained extraordinary sexuality set out to do so and devoted substantial time, energy and development of interpersonal skills to make it happen.
Extraordinary lovers practice the required skills, even though this entailed making mistakes within view of their partners.
They taught themselves to become more open, attentive and sensitive, so that they could be absorbed with their partners in the moment.
Are you able to read your partner’s verbal and nonverbal communication, respond to subtle cues, and make ongoing modification to enhance your sexual encounter? If you can do this in the bedroom, you are likely doing it in other areas of your life.
Touch can be used as a vehicle for communication.
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