How do you view sex?
(From the book Magnificent Sex)
Optimal sexual experiences are deeply personal and individual, and require high levels of honesty, which certainly may be challenging and perhaps uncomfortable. Not acknowledging true desires, and enduring unrewarding sex is also uncomfortable and unlikely to be associated with long-term growth.
Extraordinary lovers see themselves as sexual beings and sexuality is inseparable from the rest of who they are.
How one feels about their sexuality permeates through every bit of their life.
They were not compartmentalized, but were well- integrated aspects of their personality.
The pursuit of optimal sexual experiences was not treated as substantially different from the pursuit of excellence in other areas.
It is acceptable to acknowledge the pursuit of sexual pleasure or to claim enjoyment of certain types of sexual activity.
Good sex has to be a priority because, otherwise, all the other chores that have to be done get in the way.
If sex is not seen as important, it’ll quit being excellent. Many people wait for it -instead of making it happen.
Extraordinary lovers did not hesitate to dedicate significant effort and commitment to the pursuit of optimal sexual experiences, as well as learning more about themselves, their partners and sex.
Magnificent sexual experiences may require a conscious decision to pursue, develop and cultivate them.
Is this something you want to pursue in earnest and are prepared to devote the necessary time and energy to bring about?
(From the book Magnificent Sex)
Optimal sexual experiences are deeply personal and individual, and require high levels of honesty, which certainly may be challenging and perhaps uncomfortable. Not acknowledging true desires, and enduring unrewarding sex is also uncomfortable and unlikely to be associated with long-term growth.
Extraordinary lovers see themselves as sexual beings and sexuality is inseparable from the rest of who they are.
How one feels about their sexuality permeates through every bit of their life.
They were not compartmentalized, but were well- integrated aspects of their personality.
The pursuit of optimal sexual experiences was not treated as substantially different from the pursuit of excellence in other areas.
It is acceptable to acknowledge the pursuit of sexual pleasure or to claim enjoyment of certain types of sexual activity.
Good sex has to be a priority because, otherwise, all the other chores that have to be done get in the way.
If sex is not seen as important, it’ll quit being excellent. Many people wait for it -instead of making it happen.
Extraordinary lovers did not hesitate to dedicate significant effort and commitment to the pursuit of optimal sexual experiences, as well as learning more about themselves, their partners and sex.
Magnificent sexual experiences may require a conscious decision to pursue, develop and cultivate them.
Is this something you want to pursue in earnest and are prepared to devote the necessary time and energy to bring about?
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