What we have found is that if you do a "state of the union" and ask what is going well and what is not going well each week, your relationship improves.
After an affair, this process is highly effective in preventing a second affair. The couple often reports more emotional connection and fewer resentments.
With that in mind, I put out a few YouTube Videos called, "Top Notch Couples Keep the Spark Alive Weekly Review."
Each one is short (the one below is 34 seconds) and mentions topics that may pertain to you. The idea is to keep talking and cleaning the slate. I have more than enough for one year to keep you on track.
Feel free to share the ones you find most helpful.
If you want a more in-depth state of the union (maybe once a month more thorough) you might download this.
Please feel free to visit my website www.boicecounseling.com for more resources.
All the best,
Don
After an affair, this process is highly effective in preventing a second affair. The couple often reports more emotional connection and fewer resentments.
With that in mind, I put out a few YouTube Videos called, "Top Notch Couples Keep the Spark Alive Weekly Review."
Each one is short (the one below is 34 seconds) and mentions topics that may pertain to you. The idea is to keep talking and cleaning the slate. I have more than enough for one year to keep you on track.
Feel free to share the ones you find most helpful.
If you want a more in-depth state of the union (maybe once a month more thorough) you might download this.
Please feel free to visit my website www.boicecounseling.com for more resources.
All the best,
Don
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