“People shop for the most desirable person who will accept them. We call this dating. Most marriages pair a bride and groom of roughly equal desirability. You choose to set up house with the best that you have found so far. Your mate has gone through the same reasoning, which leaves you both vulnerable.”
" Want to be more secure in your relationship? Choose someone who is emotionally committed to you because you are you not by your objective mate value. Then that emotion will not be changed when someone comes along with a higher mate value than you.”