All About the Eyes
In your mind, take a snapshot of their face and do not look at them too closely, just out of the periphery- peripheral vision. This is your “go to” when you are observing visually. At least most of the time.
Eye contact- soul gazing, really looking deeply into their eyes is one that is popular with couples. This is not that, but you can do that as well. Many people make little to no eye contact when talking.
In the conversation today, match the level of eye contact, frequency of eye contact, duration thereof, intensity of it so that you are in sync. Don’t forget that each person is expected to do all of these.
It is the weekend, so….
Imagine this- You are gazing into each other’s eyes, breathing in sync, smiling, giggling and mimicking each other.
How soon before you are kissing?
When you are kissing, who is following, who is leading?
Pay attention to how they like to kiss.
You are getting more adept in noticing them.
Watch how kissing becomes deeper, when you are emotionally in sync.
Any guesses what else is better when you are in deep rapport?
So, um....don't take my word for it, see if I am correct.
You're welcome ; )
In your mind, take a snapshot of their face and do not look at them too closely, just out of the periphery- peripheral vision. This is your “go to” when you are observing visually. At least most of the time.
Eye contact- soul gazing, really looking deeply into their eyes is one that is popular with couples. This is not that, but you can do that as well. Many people make little to no eye contact when talking.
In the conversation today, match the level of eye contact, frequency of eye contact, duration thereof, intensity of it so that you are in sync. Don’t forget that each person is expected to do all of these.
It is the weekend, so….
Imagine this- You are gazing into each other’s eyes, breathing in sync, smiling, giggling and mimicking each other.
How soon before you are kissing?
When you are kissing, who is following, who is leading?
Pay attention to how they like to kiss.
You are getting more adept in noticing them.
Watch how kissing becomes deeper, when you are emotionally in sync.
Any guesses what else is better when you are in deep rapport?
So, um....don't take my word for it, see if I am correct.
You're welcome ; )
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