Getting the Spark Back: How I Picked Up Your Wife
There are interesting statistics flying around the pick up community. Women who have been married x amount of years are easy to pick up because their husbands have stopped paying attention, stopped courting and it is like taking candy from a baby, they tell us. Knowing that information can help your relationship!
A pet peeve of mine is when I hear the man tell me that he is a good man, as if that is enough to keep his partner interested. It is necessary to be nice, build rapport, be a stand up guy, but it does not get attention and keep it. It is necessary, but not sufficient.
Let’s go back to the Pick Up Artists who tell us that there are five attraction switches:
Each of these five has to be activated or the sparks do not ignite. Want passion? You need all of these, they inform us.
“1. I have an exciting life. I am exciting. I have a sense of humor and adventure. I am open to new experiences. I sweep her off her feet. I make her wonder. I am exciting and fun. She wants to know will he make me feel good?
2. I have a strong social network and emotional connection. She wants to know: Does he understand me? Is there emotional chemistry? Will he be loyal?
3. I have ambitious life goals - She wants to know will he go places with me? Is he successful? Does he have a positive outlook? Will he energize me and be enthusiastic?
4. I take care of my loved ones. I am the leader of the pack. She wants to know do people follow him? Is he smart or strong enough to protect me?
5. I turn her on. Sex -is there an emotional and rational chemistry. Before being seduced she wants to know if she can trust him , feel comfortable and is there a connection? If there's a sensual and emotional connection , then you can move into sexual connection and then she will chase you.
Do not make your move until you trigger attraction.”
These are true for picking up a woman, they tell us and think about the implications of these five for a marriage or long term relationship. You need all five of these or you're in the friend zone and she thinks there's not the right chemistry. You become like roommates and fall out of love.
There are interesting statistics flying around the pick up community. Women who have been married x amount of years are easy to pick up because their husbands have stopped paying attention, stopped courting and it is like taking candy from a baby, they tell us. Knowing that information can help your relationship!
A pet peeve of mine is when I hear the man tell me that he is a good man, as if that is enough to keep his partner interested. It is necessary to be nice, build rapport, be a stand up guy, but it does not get attention and keep it. It is necessary, but not sufficient.
Let’s go back to the Pick Up Artists who tell us that there are five attraction switches:
Each of these five has to be activated or the sparks do not ignite. Want passion? You need all of these, they inform us.
“1. I have an exciting life. I am exciting. I have a sense of humor and adventure. I am open to new experiences. I sweep her off her feet. I make her wonder. I am exciting and fun. She wants to know will he make me feel good?
2. I have a strong social network and emotional connection. She wants to know: Does he understand me? Is there emotional chemistry? Will he be loyal?
3. I have ambitious life goals - She wants to know will he go places with me? Is he successful? Does he have a positive outlook? Will he energize me and be enthusiastic?
4. I take care of my loved ones. I am the leader of the pack. She wants to know do people follow him? Is he smart or strong enough to protect me?
5. I turn her on. Sex -is there an emotional and rational chemistry. Before being seduced she wants to know if she can trust him , feel comfortable and is there a connection? If there's a sensual and emotional connection , then you can move into sexual connection and then she will chase you.
Do not make your move until you trigger attraction.”
These are true for picking up a woman, they tell us and think about the implications of these five for a marriage or long term relationship. You need all five of these or you're in the friend zone and she thinks there's not the right chemistry. You become like roommates and fall out of love.
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