Do you want to be conscious and aware or go through it on auto-pilot?
I want to grab the brass ring, to go for it!
Want to date that woman you’ve been interested in for awhile now? Ask for it directly, without apology. Put the ball in her court. Stop pretending you do not know what it is you want!
I want to be alive until I am dead.
How do I do that?
Live in the moment. Be aware and conscious of your feelings and let them help guide your decisions. You want more out of life? Go out and get it. Stop being so darn passive and go get what you want. Allow yourself to know what you want and take action. If she declines, she declines. It is not yours to ask only when you know the answer to the question- stop playing it so safe, stop being so darn cautious. You are not really protecting yourself because you are not acting in your own best interests.
Be more of you and watch how courage appears!
Go a little deeper- I can either intellectually figure out what I want (risk over thinking it again- anyone relate to that one?) or I can tune in to my body which is telling me what I want. My body figured it out in a few milliseconds. Allow myself to follow what my body is suggesting. Allow my behavior to match my intention or else risk working at cross purposes!