Love and patience are connected. When I develop patience, I am more loving.
What are your obstacles to loving others? If you can list them, name them, then you can work to remove them.
Pay attention to that which matters. What matters, or is important? Not much. We take ourselves a bit too seriously at times.
What arises in your mind is reflected in the world. We do not see things as they are. We see things from our perspective, always seeming to reinforce our preconceived notions- proving ourselves right. If you do not like what you see in the world, consider what you are seeing is an illusion. It appears real, seems real, but is not totally real.
Face your fears about love and trust. You will find that you love more openly and deeply and that trust is an inside job.
We create our own reality. What reality are you creating?