How do you say no? How does that affect the relationship? Are there better ways to say no? If you cannot think of any, ask the group leader for suggestions, as this one is common.
What are your 10 go-to positions? Okay 5? 3?
How did you choose those ones?
Are they serving you well or would you like more or different?
What is the best lubricant for you and how do you like to talk about it?
Who is in charge of buying it, getting it when the time is right etc.
If you are getting a little older, there are some age related concerns for men. Getting it up, keeping it up, premature ejaculation, interest level, prostate issues, cancer, pumps, injections, viagara, penile fracture etc.
How satisfied are you with how you are talking about these and have back up plans?
Do you need to talk to someone at the sexual wellness center, or your urologist?
For women, as the hormones shift, there can be many issues that accompany the hot flashes. Older women say they need more lubricant than they needed previously. The sexual wellness center can also help with sex drive, pain during sex, pelvic floor exercises, emotional things that come up during sex, talking through arousal versus desire.
There is help available for pretty much any obstacle you may encounter.