Feel free to add your own and indicate which of the below might fit
You won’t find me attractive. I am not good enough. I am not good in bed. I don’t want you to see my body when I gain weight. I am afraid you will not be happy if I say "No" as often as I want to.
m afraid you would think less of me if you knew how much I enjoy sex. I get triggered by my past sexual abuse sometimes and don’t know how to tell you.
Sometimes I am bored by our sex. I don’t want to put the work in to spice it up and am bored.
When I am depressed, I don’t want sex. I want sex a lot more than you do. I am afraid of infidelity.
I have some things about sex that I fear you will judge me about- preferences, fantasies etc. I am afraid I am not as good as your past partners. I am afraid of telling you what I want and want more of. The last time I told you that, you never did it again and I really liked it. I was too embarrassed to ask again.
Share those feelings and how to comfort one another when afraid.
End this exercise by focusing on "What is going well sexually?"