She asks her couples three questions and I would encourage you to think about these as well:
Tell me about the last time you felt really beloved, cherished and connected- What would it take to get that back?
What is it like being married to you?
How is work shared?
These three questions are designed to make you think a little bit more deeply about your relationship, focusing on areas that are common hurdles.
Encourage your partner to answer these questions as well.