Acknowledge that all men have already had issues or will have issues in time
Talk about it beforehand with your partner and how you want her to respond (she is not to take your body’s behavior personally, not make a big deal and not put pressure to perform) if it happens
Acknowledge that it is not an issue, unless it persists
Anxiety about performing is perfectly normal
Remind yourself to focus on her, not yourself
Define sex more broadly-remember that you have kissing, touching, caressing etc available to you. Have a plan b if/when it happens
Stop having sex be about ejaculation and more about connection
Hint: These are great reminders even if there is not Erectile Dysfunction!