When you first fell in love, put yourself in that picture. Call to mind that picture and all the details.
What did you love about your partner?
What did you find attractive?
What were you fond of? What did they do that really turned you on?
When did you know that they were “the one” that you wanted to have a deeper relationship with?
Think about your kids and the traits that they have. Which traits of your partner do they have, that you really appreciate?
If you don’t have kids, think about the traits of your partner that you want them to have. That you hope they get…
Notice your feelings right now. Do you like how you feel? Do you know how to recreate that?
In the coming weeks, I will have more ideas for things you two can do together to grow the relationship, get to know each other even better and deeper and some will be updating your image of your partner and some will be review. Can you commit to your partner that you will do the work and grow closer?
Many of these exercises will be used to prepare couples for the sacred sexuality classes and retreat "Enlightenment Through Ecstasy"