It's about selection and finding the right one. There are many right ones argue most people who value science and evidence.
Where do you look and how do you select?
Helen Fisher, a Cultural Anthropologist has a lot to say about this.
See the website and her YouTube (Why we love, why we cheat) for a more exhaustive discussion:
1 Negotiator- Estrogen and oxytocin, attracted to builder, oxytocin-and vasopressin equal attachment that is secure and so you tolerate and stick with them long enough to raise kid
2 Builder- Serotonin, attracted to builder, loyal, formal- norepinephrine and lower levels of serotonine means romantic attraction can happen- triggers falling in love
3 Director Dopamine-attracted to negotiator, no emotion
4 Explorer- Testosterone- attracted to other explorers, curious, novelty- testosterone is good for sex drive- novelty and romance increase dopamine
(Know what you want. Each pairing has specific needs- how do you want to be treated)
Let me know what you think.
Where do you look and how do you select?
Helen Fisher, a Cultural Anthropologist has a lot to say about this.
See the website and her YouTube (Why we love, why we cheat) for a more exhaustive discussion:
1 Negotiator- Estrogen and oxytocin, attracted to builder, oxytocin-and vasopressin equal attachment that is secure and so you tolerate and stick with them long enough to raise kid
2 Builder- Serotonin, attracted to builder, loyal, formal- norepinephrine and lower levels of serotonine means romantic attraction can happen- triggers falling in love
3 Director Dopamine-attracted to negotiator, no emotion
4 Explorer- Testosterone- attracted to other explorers, curious, novelty- testosterone is good for sex drive- novelty and romance increase dopamine
(Know what you want. Each pairing has specific needs- how do you want to be treated)
Let me know what you think.
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