Some people have even stronger feelings about hand holding than they do about kissing. “Holding hands in public indicates you are a couple,” she said. “It’s something you do only after you’ve been pretty intimate.” Another woman said, “Holding hands is great. It is about feeling connected and getting closeness. I do it with friends, with family and with people I date. It feels good.”
How often do you hold hands? How often do you cuddle with your partner- hug, hold one aonther, spoon, give back rubs etc? Everyone has their own preference on this. I know people who are all over one another and other couples who rarely touch. As long as it works for both parties, it doesn’t matter really which way you go. Negotiate what you want, ask for it. Is it a deal breaker?