Try the gottman deck examples:
Pretend youre two different animals, like panthers, and make love.
Draw a bubble bath and bathe your partner.
Play naked twister and then have sex.
Masturbate to orgasm thinking of your partner and then tell your partner about your fantasy.
Spread whipped cream or chocolate sauce on your favorite body parts of your partner before kissing and licking him or her.
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Elevator kissing and touch
Give oral to climax without breaking eye contact at all
Try to have silent sex try to make the other person moan. The first person to make a sound loses kind of.
Lick a trail from one of her nipples to the other and then down to her clitoris. Linger for only a few seconds on each of the three hotspots.
Set the washing machine on high and have sex on it.
After sex gently blow on each other’s below the belt regions.
Lightly wrap a beaded or fake pearl necklace around his penis, and roll it back and forth
Do a dirty 360- get into girl- on- top and spin all the way around without pulling away.
Listen to different songs from two iPads as you have sex. The contrast and rhythm will make the sex unpredictable and hot.
Touch either side of her clitoris where there are lots of nerves that often get neglected.
Keep warm tea nearby and take A swig every so often while you go down on him.
In front of your guy, eat a piece of fruit exactly how you’d like him to go down on you.
Strip her down, and put your belt loosely around her hips so that during doggy style sex, you can pull her closer and get deeper with each thrust.
These are examples from cosmopolitan’s card deck called “365 Naughty Nights”
Come up with your own spin and talk about what you might enjoy to mix things up a bit and keep them fresh.