Intimacy is letting the person get to know you and knowing them.
How couples deal with differences is incredibly important. Similarities are easy and our differences sometimes feel threatening or annoying instead of inspiring curiosity. "I am curious, why do you do it that way?"
Is one of you more touchy, caressing, and like to kiss? What do you do with this difference?
Is each person’s need respected?
Is one of you more likely to want to cuddle on the couch, or want to spoon?
New to the blog?
Go back through the past month or so and consider answering these questions with your partner. What is the downside of getting to know one another?
How couples deal with differences is incredibly important. Similarities are easy and our differences sometimes feel threatening or annoying instead of inspiring curiosity. "I am curious, why do you do it that way?"
Is one of you more touchy, caressing, and like to kiss? What do you do with this difference?
Is each person’s need respected?
Is one of you more likely to want to cuddle on the couch, or want to spoon?
New to the blog?
Go back through the past month or so and consider answering these questions with your partner. What is the downside of getting to know one another?
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