"I wish you joy and happiness. I pray that you have satisfaction and feel your sense of purpose. I apologize for hurting you. I forgive you for anything you may have done today that needs forgiveness. I appreciate all that you do for our family. You are loved and lovable."
In essence, each morning and evening you remind yourself why your spouse is in your life, why you got together and why you are in one another's life. You recommit to the relationship, remind yourself that you do not see as clearly as you would like and you open your heart.
We already know that wisdom is demonstrated through compassion. What would happen to your level of compassion if you created a nightly ritual like the above?
all the best