(want more in-depth? Go to the book "Hot Monogamy" page 23 for their Sexual Style Inventory)
Test yourself. How well do you know your partner?
What are your partner’s turn ons- list as many as you can,
What are their turn offs- list as many as you can.
Compare notes and continue
Who has a higher sex drive in general?
How does that play out in the relationship?
How can we use this information to our advantage and make our relationship even better?
Who has more sexual desire and what does that mean for you?
Do they wait for you to build desire or do they take responsibility for their desire?
Who gets aroused more easily? How?
How do you use this information to help the relationship improve?