Let me know what you think, I have been re-reading the Diamond Heart books:
“I want things to be different than they are now” is a common thought we have now and it invalidates or rejects our current experience. This is how things are now, experience them and watch how they begin to change. It is okay to feel a desire for things to be different and then just let it be. Often, no action is required and we need to do nothing for things to work out perfectly.
Things have an essence that we cannot change. Whether or not we allow them to be themselves, they are themselves. Take plants, for example. You will not get irises from a rose bush. Let a rose bush be a rose bush, not an iris. What action is required by you to allow this to happen? None, it happens naturally.
“You cannot make yourself grow you can only cease to interfere .
You cannot make yourself happy you can only stop your judgments.
Growth and expansion are natural; they are the life force itself .
You cannot predict its direction.”
I love this stuff!