Know what is sexy? Exploring and finding yourself, developing, growing, confidence with humility. Get out of your comfort zone, through exposure to things which are not comfortable. Discipline yourself to follow the path of growth. When you have self discipline, you can then develop real peace and calm. Do you want contentment and happiness? Follow the causes and conditions and do not give in to distractions.
For those of you who are shy or find that your social skills need some polishing-
Exercise: Talk to a stranger today in a non-threatening manner.
Stir their curiosity and capture their imagination- it is a springboard for more conversation while showing your personality. Practice with strangers and then watch how well it works with people you already know, like your partner.
How might you stir their curiosity?
When you are talking to strangers today, put a smile on your face before you approach and don’t start with “Excuse me.”
Laugh at yourself and while you speak, play with them and enjoy being with them.
Are you radiating positivity when you talk?
Are you upbeat, non-needy and empathetic?
Stretch yourself by challenging yourself realistically and keep challenging yourself every day. Revise the challenge until it is something that is hard but achievable.