Souls are not gendered, silly. Atoms have no gender, but they have the capacity to express gender depending on how they are arranged. What if we looked at ourselves as having everything within- male and female and give ourselves permission to just be who we are at any given time. Stop the focus on whether this is more masculine or feminine and “just be.” Less self focus and more caring and freedom, please.
“When consciousness tends toward femaleness or maleness there’s never peace because the soul is innately androgynous…most people do not even want to consider these questions : is there nothing more? what is the nature of human existence? is this all there is? When the desire for personal Satisfaction is foremost in a relationship, one’s own gratification is paramount. When there is selflessness in a relationship, there can be true caring, peace and freedom.” Ashby
Exercise: Can you think beyond your body? First you have to develop your body and your mind, the discipline required to transcend…
Have you gotten to the point of 10 kegels a day a couple to three times a day on a regular basis? This exercise will strengthen your pelvic floor, which helps during sex. Remember to keep breathing (no holding your breath) and no pushing with thighs, buttocks or even your stomach. If you dribble after urination or are sometimes incontinent, this can really help.