My self talk is “ if she expects me to open up at all after that... no way. She expects me to do the heavy lifting and she doesn’t do her work. Her strategy can’t possibly work effectively with me or with any other long term relationship. If she’s not going to be open and honest about her inner workings despite me repeatedly asking and modeling, it’s like she’s asking to get paid for full time work but only works part time. It’s not fair or emotionally honest. “
How many of us have been in relationships where one person does the majority of the work with emotions? They maybe want something for nothing or are a bit on the lazy side? If you want an adult healthy relationship, then you have to have some bravery and courage. You have to let your partner know who you are.
How many of us have been in relationships where one person does the majority of the work with emotions? They maybe want something for nothing or are a bit on the lazy side? If you want an adult healthy relationship, then you have to have some bravery and courage. You have to let your partner know who you are.
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