Quite simply marriage and relationships are about love.
If we balance our reason with the center of our heart, with the wisdom of our heart, with love, then we will do the right thing and decisions become easier.
There are times I shake my head and challenge how people define love. I have told some people, "Please don't call that love." They cheapen love.
There is relative love and there is absolute love. Mostly, as humans we do the relative love. We strive to be loved absolutely, without conditions. When we get a glimpse of that, the relative love pales in comparison. It can truly be a spiritual experience, to be loved thoroughly, completely. We then seek that from our loved ones and no one can measure up.
Thank you to those of you who have been reading this and telling me about it in sessions or via e-mail. I want to let you know that I am going to change the tone of this blog a bit and bring out some deeper teachings about love and relationship, perhaps challenge your definition. It is a very positive approach and works wonders. It is a deep challenge for most of us and you will likely fail at times and not be able to sustain it. When you do